Many of my male clients have asked me, “Does size matter?” The truth (from a woman who speaks to a lot of women) is yes, size does matter to SOME women, and NO, it doesn’t matter to the majority of …
Not Ready to Have a Baby?
If you’re not ready to have a baby yet it’s 100% your responsibility to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy. Assuming that the girl is on the pill, or that she’ll have an abortion if she gets pregnant, are very dangerous …
Avoiding Sex Because You Feel Unattractive?
If you’re not feeling sexy and therefore avoiding sex with your man you are destroying your relationship. I understand the lack of desire to have sex when you don’t feel good. I’m sure your partner does too. But if you’re …
Am I Obligated to Have Sex?
A client of mine recently asked me if she was obligated to have sex with a man who was going to take her to dinner. When I replied, “Of course not!” she seemed surprised. She has previously had sex with him …
Big Sisterly Advice to Teenage Girls About First Time Sex
Should I or shouldn’t I? If you feel you don’t have anyone to talk to about wanting to have first time sex you can talk to me. I’ll help you make the right decision for you, with no judgments. Knowledge …
Hooking up with someone you’re crazy about becomes lonely and frustrating if it doesn’t move forward and become a full relationship. Well, nothing changes if nothing changes; you need to stop having sex so you can get your other needs met. You teach …
Sex can be an awful lot like comfort food. In the moment, it’s all about pleasure. It’s hot, fun, and yummy—sometimes even decadent—and the consequences are far from any present concern. But when it’s over, you might not be left …
How To Spice Up Your Relationship with Games
The best part of starting a new relationship is the chase and the seduction of discovering each other for the first time. Exploring the unknown is exciting. That’s the reason a lot of people cheat, however, cheating destroys most relationships. …
When to First Have Sex
When to first have sex can make or break a potential relationship. Kissing will never again be as passionate and romantic as it is before sex, so take your time and enjoy the anticipation it creates. Think about how amazing …