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Being Stubborn Destroys Relationships
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July 25, 20200Comments

Being Stubborn Destroys Relationships

  Have you ever realized that you were wrong but were too proud, aka stubborn, to admit it? So you find yourself digging in your heels and making things worse? Or

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When someone you love has betrayed you or hurt you in anyway, it's hard to let it go. But if you love your partner and want to make your relationship work you need to stop focusing on your past before it destroys your future.
Fix Our Issues
May 26, 20192Comments

Focusing On Your Past Destroys Your Future

When someone you love has betrayed you or hurt you in any way, it's hard to let it go. But if you love your partner and want to make your

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Get Your Needs Met
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April 20, 20190Comments

Get Your Needs Met

Are you waiting for your partner to change so you can get your needs met? That's giving your power away, and leaving you in limbo. We are all responsible for

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Being Impulsive Is Not Smart
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February 16, 20190Comments

Being Impulsive Is Not Smart

Thinking on your feet and responding immediately is not helpful to your relationship. I know many people are proud of having that ability to always have a quick comeback. I

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Don't Punish Your Partner
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February 2, 20190Comments

Don’t Punish Your Partner

When your partner makes you angry is your first instinct to lash back and hurt him or her? S/he hurt you so turn around is fair play, right? No, that's

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You Can Never Take Back Mean Words
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January 9, 20190Comments

You Can Never Take Back Mean Words

Mean and nasty criticism of your partner, said out of anger, with an intention just to hurt will permanently damage your relationship, and very possibly end it for good. So if

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Don't Hold Your Feelings In When Your Partner Upsets You
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April 28, 20181Comments

Don’t Hold Your Feelings In When Your Partner Upsets You

If your partner does something that upsets you, you need to speak up about how you feel immediately — without yelling. Therein lies the problem for a lot of people.

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If You Escape Your Relationship You're Going To Lose It
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February 12, 20180Comments

If You Escape Your Relationship You’re Going To Lose It

Do you avoid intimacy or spending time with your significant other? Do you need a lot of space? If so, you're pushing him or her away. I need to warn you,

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Don't Manifest Your Relationship Fears
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January 7, 20180Comments

Don’t Manifest Your Relationship Fears

"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself" Franklin D. Roosevelt Fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, fear of commitment, fear of change, fear of rejection, fear of failure, and even fear

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No One Makes You Do Anything
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November 14, 20170Comments

No One Makes You Do Anything

Before you blame your partner for making you do something, stop and think, "I have free will to choose my behavior." Then make sure that you always choose your actions wisely. No

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workout together to stay together
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August 17, 20170Comments

Work Out Together to Stay Together

Want to spend some quality time with your partner? How about working out together? It may not be something you would have thought of, but exercising together could actually prove

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Can You Accept "No" or Do You Push to Get Your Way?
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July 29, 20170Comments

Can You Accept “No” or Do You Push to Get Your Way?

When someone tells you no can you hear that? Or do you push to get your way and what you want anyway? Ignoring the answer when it’s not the one you wanted

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Your Emotional Wall Keeps You Alone
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July 14, 20170Comments

Your Emotional Wall Keeps You Alone

Being emotionally open in a relationship is very scary for people who are uncomfortable with feeling vulnerable. Putting up an emotional wall to hide behind feels safe. After all, it is much

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8 Signs Your Relationship is Too Hard
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May 18, 20170Comments

8 Signs Your Relationship is Too Hard

Did you think you possibly found the love of your life but you’re not feeling happy? Are you frequently frustrated, confused, angry, or sad? Do you feel like you’re bending over

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Taking Your Relationship For Granted Will End It
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December 15, 20151Comments

Taking Your Relationship For Granted Will End It

Taking your relationship for granted is easy to start doing when life gets busy. Unfortunately, too many people don't change their behavior until their partner has left them, and then

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