Sex can be an awful lot like comfort food. In the moment, it’s all about pleasure. It’s hot, fun, and yummy—sometimes even decadent—and the consequences are far from any present concern. But when it’s over, you might not be left …
When you’re angry do you vent to anyone who will listen? If you’re angry at your ex or anyone else do you fantasize about how you would like to tell them off or contemplate how to get revenge? If so, …
It’s been said that it’s not love that’s blind, but jealousy. When left unbridled, jealousy is an incredibly destructive emotion. But if you give jealousy vision, you can use it as an insightful tool to determine the quality of your …
We have all heard stories about someone who gave their partner an ultimatum and got what he or she wanted. But I’m sure you have also heard about someone who tried to give an ultimatum and it ended badly, maybe …
Are You Giving Away Your Power?
“He who loves least has the power.” Have you ever heard that expression? It refers to who controls the relationship. I googled that topic and as a relationship coach, I was sorry to see how many other bloggers think that …
How to Get Him to Ask You Out
Men are just as nervous and even as insecure as you are about making contact with someone attractive. You can make it easier and get him to come talk to you by being brave and flirting a little. If you …
Most of my clients come to me wanting their ex back. Sometimes it truly was a relationship worth saving, and I help reunite them and make it even better than it was before. However, more frequently I end up showing …
I believe fear is the root of all relationship problems. The most common fears are fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, fear of commitment, fear of change, fear of rejection, fear of failure, and even fear of success. Everyone has …
How to Ask a Girl Out
Confidence is very attractive and more important than looks are to a woman. So when you want to ask a girl out be brave, make sure you have a plan of what you will do on your date, and don’t …
How to Change Your Partner
People don’t change unless they want to. Most people don’t want to. Change is hard. Yet many of us exert too much of our precious time and energy trying to change a lover who doesn’t want to change. Try focusing …
The Importance of Spring Cleaning Your Relationship
With spring comes change and with that, sometimes relationships change. If the winter had you cooped up and feeling blasé you may be coming down with Spring fever. It’s time to check off your spring cleaning list and reevaluate your …
How Honest Should Your Online Profile Be?
You need to be honest in your online profile to attract the right person for you. However, oversharing will turn people off. So how honest should you be? If you know you have a core personality trait that has frequently …
A first date is supposed to be about enjoying each other’s company and finding out if you have chemistry and commonality…but also making sure you don’t do anything to turn your date off. Talking too much or revealing too much …
If you’re too shy or uncomfortable to hold eye contact with someone you like then your body language is saying the opposite of what you feel. Your date will assume you’re just not into them. First dates can be scary …
5 Mistakes Men Make in Online Profiles
Many of my clients come to me because they’re frustrated with online dating and they’re tired of being single. They know they’re doing something wrong they’re just not sure what. I very much enjoy helping men and women find the …