Chemistry

Looks Don’t Make You Happy
In dating, first impressions are largely about looks. Especially if you meet on a dating app. But when it comes to creating a good relationship, looks don't make you happy. The

10 Rules of Dating
My clients frequently ask me, "What are the rules of dating?" Well, I'm not a fan of dating rules because they tend to make you seem phony and when broken

Know And Enforce Your Deal Breakers
People reveal themselves if you're paying attention. So if you know and enforce your deal breakers it can be really easy to avoid heartbreak. Of course, that's easier said than

In Love But Not Happy
Falling in love can be very allusive. That's why many people stay in relationships that don't really work for them. However, if you're in love but not happy then you

Does Size Matter?
Many of my male clients have asked me, “Does size matter?” The truth (from a woman who speaks to a lot of women) is yes, size does matter to SOME women,

Not Ready to Have a Baby?
If you’re not ready to have a baby yet it’s 100% your responsibility to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy. Assuming that the girl is on the pill, or that she’ll

Don’t Get Married Younger Than 25
Falling in love is exciting. When you think you’ve found “the one” its fun to fantasize about walking down the aisle together. Nonetheless, if you haven’t celebrated your twenty-fifth birthday

First Date or One Night Stand?
There is no guarantee to see each other again if you have sex on the first date. So if it’s going really well and you decide to have sex that

Big Sisterly Advice to Teenage Girls About First Time Sex
Should I or shouldn't I? If you feel you don't have anyone to talk to about wanting to have first time sex you can talk to me. I'll help you

How to Turn a Hook Up Into a Relationship
Hooking up with someone you’re crazy about becomes lonely and frustrating if it doesn’t move forward and become a full relationship. Well, nothing changes if nothing changes; you need to stop

Should I Have Sex With My Ex?
Sex can be an awful lot like comfort food. In the moment, it’s all about pleasure. It’s hot, fun, and yummy—sometimes even decadent—and the consequences are far from any present

An Open Book is Not Sexy
A first date is supposed to be about enjoying each other’s company and finding out if you have chemistry and commonality…but also making sure you don’t do anything to turn

Are You Being Sexy or Creepy?
If your intention is to have sex with your date at the end of the night your actions will most likely prevent you from getting anything. Do you know if

When to First Have Sex
When to first have sex can make or break a potential relationship. Kissing will never again be as passionate and romantic as it is before sex, so take your time

Are Looks Important?
Society is now thankfully focused on empowering people to feel good about themselves no matter what size, shape, or color they are. I'm all for that! You are what you