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Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes
It's New
May 14, 20190Comments

Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes

It sounds so simple and stupid but it's arguably the most important saying you need to remember. If you want something to change, you need to initiate change, because nothing

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Get Your Needs Met
Fix Our Issues
April 20, 20190Comments

Get Your Needs Met

Are you waiting for your partner to change so you can get your needs met? That's giving your power away, and leaving you in limbo. We are all responsible for

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Giving an addict money is enabling them
Help Us Last
January 16, 20190Comments

Are You an Enabler? Quiz

Truly loving someone means you want the best for them. However, giving them everything they want is far from what's best for anyone. It creates codependence. And makes you an

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You Can Never Take Back Mean Words
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January 9, 20190Comments

You Can Never Take Back Mean Words

Mean and nasty criticism of your partner, said out of anger, with an intention just to hurt will permanently damage your relationship, and very possibly end it for good. So if

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You Can't Control What Your Ex Does
We Broke Up
February 3, 20180Comments

You Can’t Control What Your Ex Does

When living through a breakup your ex consumes the majority of your thoughts. What is he doing? Why doesn’t she want me? What’s wrong with me? That’s when the bargaining

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Don't Manifest Your Relationship Fears
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January 7, 20180Comments

Don’t Manifest Your Relationship Fears

"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself" Franklin D. Roosevelt Fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, fear of commitment, fear of change, fear of rejection, fear of failure, and even fear

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No One Makes You Do Anything
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November 14, 20170Comments

No One Makes You Do Anything

Before you blame your partner for making you do something, stop and think, "I have free will to choose my behavior." Then make sure that you always choose your actions wisely. No

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Dating An Addict
Fix Our Issues
November 12, 20170Comments

Dating An Addict

Having a positive attitude and being a supportive partner is something I highly recommend—unless you’re dating an addict. When you first meet an alcoholic, you may not see his or

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domestic violence against men
For Men
September 28, 20170Comments

Domestic Violence Against Men

Women aren't the only victims of domestic violence. Understand the signs of domestic violence against men, and know how to get help. Recognize the signs of domestic violence against men Domestic violence

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Addiction and domestic violence
For Women
September 27, 20170Comments

Addiction And Domestic Violence

A Look At The Connections Between Addiction and Domestic Violence Addiction affects millions of lives each year; not only does the individual who is battling the addiction suffer, but their families

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Looking at Your Partner’s Phone
Fix Our Issues
September 25, 20170Comments

Looking at Your Partner’s Phone

If you feel the need to look at your partner’s phone there is something wrong; either with your relationship, or with you. Under no circumstance is it appropriate for you

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Stop Being Jealous to Save Your Relationship
For Men
April 27, 20150Comments

Stop Being Jealous to Save Your Relationship

It’s been said that it’s not love that’s blind, but jealousy. When left unbridled, jealousy is an incredibly destructive emotion. But if you give jealousy vision, you can use it

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Dealing With the Anger of a Breakup
We Broke Up
July 29, 20140Comments

Dealing With the Anger of a Breakup

Question: How do I get rid of the anger I have for past boyfriends who broke my heart? I am particularly angry at the men who said we would get

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