Donna Barnes offers advice for men to help them achieve the relationships they want. Get a girl, casual sex, marriage, it all starts with confidence and feeling great about yourself.
For Men

How to Tell Someone You Don’t Want a Future Together
If you know the person you're dating is crazy about you but you also know you don't want a future with her than the compassionate thing to do is end

Two Things You Should NEVER Say to a Woman
If you want your woman to become calm and stop being emotional you need to be smart about how you go about asking. The two things you should never say

Stop Being Jealous to Save Your Relationship
It’s been said that it’s not love that’s blind, but jealousy. When left unbridled, jealousy is an incredibly destructive emotion. But if you give jealousy vision, you can use it

How to Ask a Girl Out
Confidence is very attractive and more important than looks are to a woman. So when you want to ask a girl out be brave, make sure you have a plan

5 Mistakes Men Make in Online Profiles
Many of my clients come to me because they're frustrated with online dating and they're tired of being single. They know they're doing something wrong they're just not sure what.

Are You Being Sexy or Creepy?
If your intention is to have sex with your date at the end of the night your actions will most likely prevent you from getting anything. Do you know if

How To Spice Up Your Relationship with Games
The best part of starting a new relationship is the chase and the seduction of discovering each other for the first time. Exploring the unknown is exciting. That's the reason

Why You Shouldn’t Lie About Your Height to Get a Date
If you lie about your height online will not help you connect with someone who wants a tall guy, and it will destroy your self-esteem. You absolutely do not want anyone

Bathroom Humor on a First Date
A first date should be fun but it’s also about making a great first impression. If things are going well why take a chance at turning your date off by

Are You Edgy or Just Rude?
Do you have an A-type personality that tends to take charge and sometimes be impatient? If so, you may be coming off as rude and turning off your date. Confidence

Confidence is More Important Than Looks
What is your core belief about yourself? Do you feel smart? Successful? Talented? Do you feel sexy? A male client came to me to get help getting girls. More specifically, he

What NOT To Do After A Good First Date
I’ve been hearing a lot of stories recently about bad behavior after a good first date. So I thought it might be worth writing about what is inappropriate, lacking in

Why You Shouldn’t Make Promises While Dating
Falling in love is arguably the best feeling in the world. You can't get enough of each other, can't stop thinking about each other, and feel like it's going to

How to Increase Emotional Intimacy
So what is emotional intimacy? Real intimacy takes time to establish. It involves trust and mutually feeling safe to be vulnerable, allowing healthy self-disclosure without fearing being betrayed or misunderstood.

How to Be a Better Listener
One of the most frustrating things to come up against in a discussion or disagreement is someone who frequently interrupts. Isn’t it annoying when you can’t finish speaking your thoughts, let