First Date

10 Rules of Dating
My clients frequently ask me, "What are the rules of dating?" Well, I'm not a fan of dating rules because they tend to make you seem phony and when broken

How To Avoid Bad Dating Advice From Friends
Being single can be frustrating for many reasons. The annoyance of having to put up with everyone else's opinion about your love life makes singledom even worse. This nosey concern is

Never Tell Your Number of Sex Partners
It is a huge red flag if your man asks you, “How many men have you had sex with?” Do not allow him to make you feel bad about yourself

Why You Should Always Accept a Compliment
You should always accept a compliment. After all, it’s flattering when someone notices you and let's you know they appreciate you—at least it should be. It’s usually intended to be

Confidence is Different Than Self-Esteem
Many highly successful people have tremendous confidence but low self-esteem. Do you know the difference? Self-esteem and self-confidence frequently get mistaken for one another, but they are two separate things.

First Date or One Night Stand?
There is no guarantee to see each other again if you have sex on the first date. So if it’s going really well and you decide to have sex that

6 Tips to Avoid the Friend Zone
Women are attracted to men they respect and desire. You can avoid the friend zone and make a woman want to be more than just friends with you by being confident

How to Be a Desirable Nice Guy
Are you a nice guy who feels like you always finish last? Tired of getting stuck in the “friend zone”? Frustrated that every girl wants a perfect prince charming? Wondering

5 Tips to Handle First Date Nerves
Do you get nervous on dates? Be careful, you may be sending the wrong message to your date — that you’re not interested. The most common reason people get nervous

Dating After Divorce
Yes, dating is very different now (if you were married for a long time) and I understand your desire to just jump into another relationship for the safety of it.

How to Turn a Hook Up Into a Relationship
Hooking up with someone you’re crazy about becomes lonely and frustrating if it doesn’t move forward and become a full relationship. Well, nothing changes if nothing changes; you need to stop

How to Get Him to Ask You Out
Men are just as nervous and even as insecure as you are about making first contact with someone attractive. You can make it easier for him to come talk to

An Open Book is Not Sexy
A first date is supposed to be about enjoying each other’s company and finding out if you have chemistry and commonality…but also making sure you don’t do anything to turn

Are You Being Sexy or Creepy?
If your intention is to have sex with your date at the end of the night your actions will most likely prevent you from getting anything. Do you know if

When to First Have Sex
When to first have sex can make or break a potential relationship. Kissing will never again be as passionate and romantic as it is before sex, so take your time