Boundaries

12 Steps to Protect Your Finances When Leaving an Abusive Relationship
Lisa Orban was married to her abuser for three years. In 1990, she left after he threatened to kill her and their two young children. She was 20 years old.

Looking at Your Partner’s Phone
If you feel the need to look at your partner’s phone there is something wrong; either with your relationship, or with you. Under no circumstance is it appropriate for you

6 Tips to Avoid the Friend Zone
Women are attracted to men they respect and desire. You can avoid the friend zone and make a woman want to be more than just friends with you by being confident

How to Be a Desirable Nice Guy
Are you a nice guy who feels like you always finish last? Tired of getting stuck in the “friend zone”? Frustrated that every girl wants a perfect prince charming? Wondering

Bad Boys Are Overrated
Bad boys got that name because they're not good for you. Their gorgeous looks and cool demeanor make them very appealing. But their self-centered, selfish, ways certainly don't make you

How to Respond to “Why are you still single?”
The question, “Why are you still single?” is highly inappropriate because it implies, “What’s wrong with you?” But try not to take offense to it and please don’t defend yourself.

Unhappily Engaged?
Getting engaged can be really exciting. Most girls dream about that moment for a long time. So when he or she got down on one knee and asked that important

Am I Obligated to Have Sex?
A client of mine recently asked me if she was obligated to have sex with a man who was going to take her to dinner. When I replied, “Of course not!”

Big Sisterly Advice to Teenage Girls About First Time Sex
Should I or shouldn't I? If you feel you don't have anyone to talk to about wanting to have first time sex you can talk to me. I'll help you

Don’t Let Meeting Online Accelerate Sex
Do you let meeting online accelerate sex? I’ve heard people say about online dating, “By the time you meet, it’s really just about whether you want to have sex or

Are You Giving Away Your Power?
"He who loves least has the power." Have you ever heard that expression? It refers to who controls the relationship. I googled that topic and as a relationship coach, I was

The Importance of Spring Cleaning Your Relationship
With spring comes change and with that, sometimes relationships change. If the winter had you cooped up and feeling blasé you may be coming down with Spring fever. It’s time

An Open Book is Not Sexy
A first date is supposed to be about enjoying each other’s company and finding out if you have chemistry and commonality…but also making sure you don’t do anything to turn

How To Spice Up Your Relationship with Games
The best part of starting a new relationship is the chase and the seduction of discovering each other for the first time. Exploring the unknown is exciting. That's the reason

Excuse Me, But –
Why healthy boundaries help both in & out of relationships If you went to purchase shoes that were labeled ON SALE but the salesperson rang them up at full price, what