Forgive and forget is much easier said than done when you feel betrayed or unloved. When you’re unable to get past something that your partner did, or didn’t do, it’s easy to become passive aggressive. The impulse to punish your partner for hurting you is certainly understandable. However, make sure your true desire is to destroy your relationship. Because that’s what that kind of behavior will do.
Its human nature to want to hurt the person who hurt you. I made a video back in 2014 called Getting Revenge on Your Ex when I was first starting my YouTube channel and it was my most viewed video for years. There truly is a thin line between love and hate, because the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. Hate is a very strong emotion that causes you to not care about your partner’s feelings or to actually wish them harm. If that’s how you’re feeling about your partner then you really do need to get out of this relationship. But I caution you, if you’re feeling hate that’s probably because you truly love your partner.
