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Quick Best Me Action Plan

will help you become a better you

The "Quick Best Me Action Plan" is perfect for those who just need guidance to work at their own pace, on their own time to become their best self.

YES! I want to start being MY best me now!

    
 
 
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   Peter Cuoco 
 13 August 2025
 
 
  Donna took my call and work with me closely to help advise me on the state of my relationship and give  ideas on how I could possibly fix it.
  
 
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   Sharon Lundholm-Nielson 
 17 April 2024
 
 
  Donna is an excellent coach. She has wisdom and empathy, as well as the education and experience to back it all up. Highly recommend!
  
 
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   Jordan a 
 5 April 2024
 
 
  I have known Donna Barnes now for 3 years as a coach and she has been such a valuable resource and listening ear in terms of developing how I approach and overcome different challenges in my life and long term relationship.  She is such a compassionate person and is very attentive and supportive in helping me progress well.  I value highly her wealth of advice which has enabled me to enrich and make the foundation to my long term relationship and general life goals stronger.  Thank you so much Donna!
  
 
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   Brian M 
 22 April 2023
 
 
  An Easy Testimonial To Write!
Donna is a true pro. When I met Donna last year and enlisted her help in my own dating journey, I felt like I struck gold. Donna took the time to get to know me and my unique dating and relationships goals. We worked collaboratively to make a plan. I felt like I found a coach, advocate, and a friend. I would gladly recommend Donna to anyone looking for insight and guidance in any aspect of their dating life.
  
 
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   Alice Moore 
 9 November 2021
 
 
  Donna is amazing! She’s so supportive and offers sound advice. She listens so well and doesn’t judge you at all. I highly recommend her!
  
 
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   brad heidorn 
 25 June 2021
 
 
  I been watching Donna's videos, and also spoken with her on the phone. I felt like she gave the most honest and real answers of all the relationship coaches that I have listen to, and talk with. I would  recommend to anyone going thru a breakup to listen to her. Her advise is real!! Thank you
  
 
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   Kim 
 23 June 2021
 
 
  Donna is an excellent, insightful life and relationship coach. She guided me through personal and professional obstacles including heartbreak and a career change. I have worked with her now for many years. What makes Donna unique is that she has so many life examples from her own experiences as well as long time client experiences that she can help relate too. She is also a wealth of resources, from tools to working through anxiety to healthy processes to overcome heartache. Un-judgmental and supportive, she uses a plethora of knowledge to work with you to achieve your goals. You leave your sessions feeling  like you can or have accomplished overcoming whatever issue you brought to that session. Her guidance has proven priceless over and over.
  
 
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   Paul D 
 2 June 2021
 
 
  I reached out to Donna after a tough break up with my girlfriend last summer.
I think I hit her with some heavy, dark stuff in our very first session but she didn’t even flinch!
I immediately felt hopeful “here’s someone who has heard it all..!  maybe she can actually help me!?”  And she did!
Over the ensuing months she was there for me when I needed her; offering advice or just listening to my RANTS!  I was feeling hopeless (obsessing and ruminating).  Donna was able to help me feel better about myself and actually gave me hope that I would recover and of course get to a place where I could meet someone else.
Thank you Donna!!
  
 
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   D P 
 2 June 2021
 
 
  Change is not the hardest part of the process when it comes to growth and bettering yourself.  Realizing what you need to change and understanding how to do it is where real skill is required.  Donna takes the time to get to know the real you and has a unique way of making you feel comfortable about looking at yourself through a third person omniscient lens.  She helped me realize that I was attracting the wrong people and worked with me to figure out the root issue of why this was happening.  Now I can confidently say that, not only my love life but, my personal life has change for the better.  Thank you Donna for giving me the tools and confidence to set my ship on the right course to success!!!

Dave

Queens, NY
  
 
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   Brian S. (Scott) Manning 
 19 May 2021
 
 
  I came across Donna’s YouTube videos in 2017 while going through issues concerning the breakup of a relationship. I found her videos answered most of my questions, however, I was still seeking answers. I contacted Donna for a couple of coaching sessions and I was amazed by her candor and her friendliness! It truly is like talking to a best friend! Her advice has been relevant, her stories and anecdotes insightful and her willingness to stay connected and available extremely helpful. Four years later, I still have dating questions and go to Donna for answers...and she still remembers my past issues! LOL! I truly recommend Donna for help in all relationship areas - especially where there is doubt a relationship is right for me. Sometimes the best thing to do is “hit the pause button,” remind myself of my value and the goodness of my heart - and consider a breakup!

What This Action Plan Can Do For You

All your relationships that didn't work out have one thing in common...you. But that's great news because you are the only person you can change. My favorite expression is NOTHING CHANGES IF NOTHING CHANGES.
I will help you improve your primary relationship, the one with yourself. I'll guide you through My Quick Action Plan to help you become your best you, so you can choose the right person, and make it last.

Healthy Boundaries

You teach people how to treat you whether you're aware of it or not. You may be unconsciously sabotaging your relationships. To get your needs met you need to enforce healthy boundaries.

Raised Self-Esteem

Take action to truly love yourself and raise your self-esteem, so you can change your pattern and make better choices. Like attracts like, as you get healthier you'll be attracted to a healthier person...and healthier people will be very attracted to you.

Unpacked Baggage

To have a good relationship, you need to know everything you do to contribute, whether good, bad, or ugly. You need to create your own personalized red flags. Also, look at your patterns so you can make better choices going forward.

Smart Goals

Change your hopes and dreams into actionable goals to stop putting off and putting up with unfinished projects and tasks and create the life you truly desire.

YES! Get Started on the best version of me Today!

I'm such a better person because of you Donna Barnes.

Kevin

Palm Beach, Florida

Exactly What You're Getting

Online Action Plan Walkthrough

Just about every client I have coached has needed help raising their self-esteem. So as you work your way through Quick Best Me Action Plan, I will continually talk about boosting your self-esteem, and things you need to stop doing that are diminishing your self-esteem. I’ll freely share every secret I have learned in my 50+ years, with personal and client stories that I never share publicly, in an effort to help you benefit from my knowledge and experiences, to prevent you from repeating any of my mistakes.

Welcome to my
Best me Action Plan

Give me three steps to help you be your best!

I’m sharing with you every single secret I have acquired in my 50+ years, including things I have never shared publicly, and giving you step-by-step encouragement in more than 10 hours of coaching, 80 individual videos, spread out thoughtfully with easy to follow actions, to keep you moving forward without getting overwhelmed throughout my 3-Step Action Plan. And, there is no pressure to finish. You will have lifetime access to this Action Plan, so you can move forward at the pace that feels right for you, and come back whenever you want.