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WITH MORE THAN 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE DONNA GIVES CLIENTS A COMBINATION OF PRACTICAL HINDSIGHT, INTELLIGENCE, AND ACADEMIC KNOWLEDGE.

Personal Coaching

Donna Barnes is a New York University Certified Life & Relationship Coach and specializes as a Breakup Coach. Named one of NYC's 12 Best Dating Coaches of 2014, also featured in Industry Trends by Dating News.com, Donna can meet with you in person in the New York City or Philadelphia areas, or speak with you anywhere in the world via phone, Zoom, or Skype.

Donna's approach to dating and relationships is truly empowering because it is all about you! If you're not happy with your situation - YOU have the power to change it! You don't have to rely on fate or luck to bring you the perfect match. And you don't have to settle for the wrong partner because the good ones always leave. Donna can give you the insight and tools to achieve the relationship you crave.

Start taking action toward the life of your dreams! It’s all about your choices, your actions, your thoughts, and feelings. Turn your dreams into reality by making them goals.

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Donna Barnes has offered her unique point of view for many national news outlets as well as entertainment and lifestyle television programs, print publications, and online media. Having joined AFTRA/SAG in 1985, followed by two decades of acting in film, television, and commercial roles, then hosting a talk show, Donna is a natural on-air expert. Cinematographers, photographers, and cameramen have always told Donna, "The camera loves you!" But Donna is much more than just a pretty face —

Donna Barnes is the one to watch and learn from...

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes For Healthy Choices

Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

"A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." — Kirkus Reviews

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"@Donna Barnes You should be getting far more views on YouTube. Brains and beauty seems to be a vanishing combo these days. There are some relationship coaches who couldn't think their way out of a wet paper bag. Seriously. The sad thing is people listen to them. Your insight and intelligent approach to relationships is refreshing and "old school" at the same time."
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"My appointment with you was beyond expectations.
Your insight, knowledge and personal experiences combine to offer much more than anyone I've previously met with."
Tony, 53

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"You're very easy to talk to and enthusiastic about what you teach."

— Gabby, 25

"Although my experience with a psychiatrist and other counselor were helpful, neither of them were able to show me which options truly existed, and how to make the right decisions. Donna always had the right advice."

— Lisa, 34

"It was a pleasure meeting you Friday afternoon. I wanted to thank you for listening to my story and offering your wise words of wisdom. Your perspective on my situation has allowed me to realize that I should be focused on simply having fun with my boyfriend and making the most of our time. I have already started applying your advice this weekend and he has been responding very positively and lovingly."

— Leslie, 27, 8 months into her relationship

"My appointment with you was beyond expectations. Your insight, knowledge and personal experiences combine to offer much more than anyone I've previously met with."

— Tony, 53

"I just spent an hour on the phone with Donna and it was money WELL spent. I've been long suspecting I've been making some mistakes in relationships and she helped me confirm my suspicions and gave excellent advice on how to solve my issues. Plus, I received a bunch of information that's super helpful and I wasn't expecting. I highly recommend her! The $175 will likely save me thousands in future doomed dates/relationships :-)"

— Nikoli Martini

"Donna continues to prove she is always right,
no matter how difficult the choice may be. "

— Joyce, 32

"I am a 47 year old woman, going through two of the most difficult relationship situations of my life. I reached out to Donna and after just a first phone call felt deeply understood, which meant everything at that moment. She clearly possesses both experience, and the gift of insight, which enables her to support her clients through painful breakups and messy relationships, and helps to shift their trajectory toward a clearer and more fulfilling path."

— Laura, 47

"I wish I would of come across your advice earlier. I bet half the population are making these mistakes and don't know it."

— Tina, 25

Coaching is 100% confidential.
With no judgments.

I want you to feel comfortable, and I will always be respectful, supportive, and compassionate with you, even if you need a little tough love at times. Tell me what you truly want, and I'll help you achieve it. I may even be able to speak with you right now!

A UNIQUE PERSPECTIVE

Personal Coaching

Queen Of
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Author

Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes For Healthy Choices

My Latest YouTube SUBSCRIBE!

Coaching Services

24/7 Breakup Support

24/7 Breakup Support

Phone or Zoom Coaching

Phone or Zoom Coaching

In Person Consultation

In Person Consultation

Coaching Packages

Coaching Packages

Recent Blog Posts

New Year, New Relationship: Tips To Up Your Dating Game

4 Questions to Consider Before Moving In Together

Maybe It Was Something You Said

Beauty & Self-Care Tips To Help You Look Your Best + Boost Confidence For A First Date

How Often Do You Fight?

Holiday 2021 Survival Guide: In-laws Addition

The Painful Truth About Your Breakup

6 Reasons & 4 Tips for Dating During Covid

the best version of yourself

THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF

Recent Blog Posts

A UNIQUE PERSPECTIVE

Personal Coaching

Queen Of TV Sound Bites

Author

Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes For Healthy Choices

My Latest YouTube SUBSCRIBE!

Coaching Services

24/7 Breakup Support

24/7 Breakup Support

Phone or Zoom Coaching

Phone or Zoom Coaching

In Person Consultation

In Person Consultation

Coaching Packages

Coaching Packages

Recent Blog Posts

the best version of yourself

THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF

Queen Of
TV Sound Bites