Are you waiting for something to happen that is out of your control? Like for your ex to come back, to get married, or move forward? That’s being in limbo, and limbo sucks.
Take your power back. Make a strong choice that you want something better. Take action and/or walk away from what is making you unhappy.
Set a SMART goal.
Specific
Manageable
Actionable
Realistic
Time-based
I’m not a fan of ultimatums, but you do have to get your needs met. Tell the person you’re waiting for exactly what you need and set a time frame for when you need it by. Then be strong and move on when that date comes if you still haven’t gotten what you want.
Life is too short to linger in limbo. Trust me years fly by faster and faster the older you get. You don’t want to waste time hoping for something that you can’t control. Let go of this frustrating situation and find a better one that makes you happy and fulfills your needs. I promise you, you’ll be glad you did.
