There is no quick fix to stop hurting from your breakup. No one can guarantee to get your ex back, because people have free will. You can’t control what your ex does; and the more you try the less attractive you become. Did you try no contact for 30 days? And your ex hasn’t come back yet, right? Now you’re stuck in limbo just waiting, ruminating, and desperately wanting to tell your ex how you feel. You’re afraid you’ll never find anyone better.
That’s the point when most of my clients come to me for help, because they just don’t know what to do to get their ex to try again. They’re not ready to let go. Many of them don’t even know why their ex left them in the first place. They’re tired of searching the internet only to find no real comfort or relief — until they find me. I’m the one who will give you The Painful Truth that this breakup is the best thing to happen to you. Your pain can help you grow. Now is your chance to look at your own issues and raise your self-esteem. My clients do achieve a happier relationship, maybe with your ex, or possibly with someone much better. But right now you need to stop thinking about your ex and focus all of your energy on you.
