Never Tell Your Number of Sex Partners

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It is a huge red flag if your man asks you, “How many men have you had sex with?” Do not allow him to make you feel bad about yourself or that you’re even obligated to answer. What you did …

Addiction And Domestic Violence

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A Look At The Connections Addiction affects millions of lives each year; not only does the individual who is battling the addiction suffer, but their families often do, as well. In some cases, alcohol and drug addiction can be linked …

When It’s Time to Go: Part 1

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A checklist of essentials to take with you when escaping abuse Walking out the door and away from an abuser—or kicking an abusive partner out the door, if so inclined—is seldom as easy as it sounds. Abusers thrive on power …

Avoiding Sex Because You Feel Unattractive?

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If you’re not feeling sexy and therefore avoiding sex with your man you are destroying your relationship. I understand the lack of desire to have sex when you don’t feel good. I’m sure your partner does too. But if you’re …

Are You High Maintenance on Dates?

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No one likes to be on a date with someone who is high maintenance. Your behavior becomes high maintenance if you’re struggling with feeling insecure or holding high or unreasonable expectations. The main objective of going on a date is …

Don’t Decide What He’s Thinking

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Trying to read into someone else’s thoughts or feelings about you causes all sorts of problems in relationships, and it’s not good for you. So please don’t do it! If your guy is a little withdrawn and you choose to …

Do You Know When You’re Being Manipulative?

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Do you frequently try to get your way, even after you have been told you can’t? Is NO a hard word for you to accept? Are you aware that trying to change someone’s mind or behavior is being manipulative? Accepting …

Big Sisterly Advice to Teenage Girls About First Time Sex

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Should I or shouldn’t I? If you feel you don’t have anyone to talk to about sex you can talk to me. I’ll help you make the right decision for you, with no judgments. Knowledge is the most important part …

Two Things You Should NEVER Say to a Woman

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If you want your woman to calm down you need to be smart about how you go about asking. If you tell her to “calm down” or “relax” you’ll mostly like get the opposite reaction — it will infuriate her. …

How to Get a Man to Marry You

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Are you waiting for your man to pop the question? How you behave will have a lot to do with if you get that proposal or not. Unfortunately, too many women start to get impatient, and then get angry, and …

Excuse Me, But –

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Why healthy boundaries help both in & out of relationships If you went to purchase shoes that were labeled ON SALE but the salesperson rang them up at full price, what would you do? Most fashionistas wouldn’t hesitate to speak …